tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-576608936287321691.post2068011377170288836..comments2023-10-24T06:19:21.423-04:00Comments on River Runs Through It: Ornery monster strikes again...JRRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17253226071663922556noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-576608936287321691.post-20605956719153850242012-07-19T04:02:19.660-04:002012-07-19T04:02:19.660-04:00Hahahaha, it's most definitely genetic, but th...Hahahaha, it's most definitely genetic, but that doesn't help me control him any better!!! I think you are probably right - he is most likely bored, among other things. He seems to have the most problems with being in class. The older kids get to do different activities and that tends to frustrate him because he doesn't understand why he can't participate. He needs to learn patience though (something we could all use more of), and more respect. Lord forbid he sit still for 5 minutes! I'm excited about your visit as well. I'll fill you in on the balloon story. I think you will probably be in the clear for this visit :)JRRhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17253226071663922556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-576608936287321691.post-12321041841004838842012-07-19T03:59:47.397-04:002012-07-19T03:59:47.397-04:00That is an excellent suggestion! He had a terribl...That is an excellent suggestion! He had a terrible problem with milk sensitivity and we had to avoid most dairy until he was about 2 years old. I'm actually thinking as of late that we might need to retry pulling back on the dairy again to see if it helps. I will definitely look at TAG teach. It sounds fascinating! I most certainly could use some guidance on how to redirect his energy. I tell my husband often that all of these things we might consider an issue now are characteristics that will make him quite an amazing adult. I just hope I'm right!JRRhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17253226071663922556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-576608936287321691.post-78328159008752746192012-07-19T03:56:58.941-04:002012-07-19T03:56:58.941-04:00I am hopeful it will pass, but for the time being,...I am hopeful it will pass, but for the time being, I need to figure out how to adjust my approach to bring out the best in my little man. He's a really great kid with a huge heart. I should be happy his behavior isn't aggressive towards other children and is instead that he's just overflowing with energy. Wouldn't we all wish to be that way? I am hopeful he does not have ADHD, but I will certainly watch him closely over the next couple of years and get him tested if we have any concerns.JRRhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17253226071663922556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-576608936287321691.post-89364087158048298862012-07-19T03:54:51.864-04:002012-07-19T03:54:51.864-04:00I know you are right. In so many ways we have hit...I know you are right. In so many ways we have hit a perfect storm with all the things going on in our lives and the typical growth issues he deals with at this age. Having his teacher talk to me was a kick in the pants though to make me realize I cannot just sit back and hope the phase ends. It's time to really try to make a difference in his behavior. He's a smart kid, so I know he has the capacity to be really well-behaved. Mommy just needs to figure out how to bring out the best in him.JRRhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17253226071663922556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-576608936287321691.post-11777126745358428782012-07-18T23:09:49.468-04:002012-07-18T23:09:49.468-04:00Hey Nan, did you ever think it might be genetic???...Hey Nan, did you ever think it might be genetic???? My personal view is that his is basically bored ... that said, tell him PaPa is coming to see him soon so he should be on his best behavior. Inside joke, Jessica told me something about a "Lighting MeQueen" balloon and how I being set up??? Do you know where I can get one of those since, evidently, I caught it out of the sky??? Can't wait for the visit . . . you are all, the best, I'm so lucky to have you in my life. love, DadDaddio Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07179083331590897725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-576608936287321691.post-56789010458443179712012-07-18T11:12:46.571-04:002012-07-18T11:12:46.571-04:00I would also suggest looking into food allergies. ...I would also suggest looking into food allergies. My children are also ADD (now 23 and 26). However, I didn't do medication; I did behavior modification and it helped tremendously.<br /><br />Thus, I'm going to suggest TAG Teach. Go to www.tagteachinternational.com and check it out. It's operant conditioning for people. TAG stands for Teaching with Acoustical Guidance. You may find a lot of help in redirecting his energy with TAG Teach.<br /><br />Hang in there.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-576608936287321691.post-3520969128586816432012-07-18T10:43:48.997-04:002012-07-18T10:43:48.997-04:00Wow, I can relate. My four kids are all high ener...Wow, I can relate. My four kids are all high energy climbers and all tend to push the limits. Is he still napping in kindergarten? We cut out our kids' naps when they started having sleeping problems at about age 3 and found they fell asleep better at night. Also melatonin is a natural sleep aid that can regulate sleep cycles. Sleep deprivation can cause symptoms that mimic ADHD, so it's key to get that sleep into him. <br /><br />Speaking of ADHD, my son has it, and acted very much like your son at that age. I got him diagnosed and put on medication for it in Grade 3 and he has responded very well. No zombie-stare or anything, just good focus. It might be something to look into, just to rule it out, especially if consistent sleep doesn't cure the issues.<br /><br />As for the phase you're going through, it can be rough. But as the parent of a now ten-year-old, I can attest that it does pass. Your hard work and thoughtfulness will pay off. It takes a long time but you'll see the fruits of your labour. :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06766580447044091252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-576608936287321691.post-36974892198447325322012-07-18T09:15:22.751-04:002012-07-18T09:15:22.751-04:00Johanna, I think you are very right in thinking th...Johanna, I think you are very right in thinking the traveling has a lot to do with it. I also think, and hate to point out, that your sweet doggy girl being gone is probably contributing in some way too. And I also agree with you that sleep is definitely key. Bella can be a monster if she isn't getting enough sleep. I also agree that all kids go through their phases, so I think it's probably a combination of everything. I have done a lot of research when it comes to my Bella girl having issues, and you are very smart, so I say start there. Find something that you think will work for you. And just know, that this too shall pass. And you are not a terrible mother. Your concern in general is proof of that. He will be fine. You will survive. Everything will be ok. :)Abbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03205707868140805765noreply@blogger.com